Query: What the Bhagavad Gita says about
What the Bhagavad Gita says about marriage...
brahmacharya vrata is simple and straight! Do not cross the line. If your goal of life is spirituality...
reaching God in present life time... even while married one can pursue path of pure spirituality! For a
married person pursuing spiritual path is difficult... not
Practising physical aspect of celibacy as a married person is difficult... very difficult in
the present sensual environment! In a world dominated by ego and fantasies... to control sexual inhibitions is
truly a formidable task! Only a very serious seeker of spirituality succeeds in such circumstances. Abstaining from
sexual indulgence is a priority of spiritual path. Why?
Sexual energy is the most potent of all energies
made available to mankind by grace of God Almighty! Sexual energy is provided to every man and woman month after
month... year after year by grace of God Almighty! Some whiled it away through pure physical channels... others
transmuted it towards the only goal of
Those who succeeded in transmuting sexual energy towards the only goal of life... were termed
successful by the masses! The essence of spirituality laid in transmuting sexual energy in totality! For a married
person a maximum of two sexual indulgences per month are permitted (one is desirable)... so says Bhagavad
If we truly desired reaching God in present life... our controlling sexual inhibitions was an
absolute must! Refraining from sexual indulgence does not mean anything in spiritual world. We must never suppress
our sensual feelings ever. We have to transmute sexual energy towards the only goal of life... only then we
succeeded on spiritual path!
Every successful entrepreneur world over has that ingredient of transmuting sexual energy
towards the only goal of life present in one inherently! Ask any successful person... and you shall know the truth!
It is a different fact that most successful people may not divulge their secrets of life. Sexual energy truly can
create wonders... it also can mar one forever!
Bhagavad Gita advices one practising Brahmacharya Vrata (vow of celibacy) throughout life! As a married person this
is not possible... thus, a maximum of one or two indulgences per month are permitted... one is desirable! The more
we indulged... the more we drained self of vital cosmic sexual energy that was so much necessitated on spiritual
Sage Vishwamitra... a highly accomplished sage of his era on sighting a maiden woman taking
bath in forlorn circumstances in deep dense jungles (forests) fell from grace... he had to repeat practice of
absolute celibacy all over again!
Acharya Rajneesh (née Osho) in the later stages of his spiritual pursuit mixed free sex with
yoga... so much so that he was unceremoniously turned out of United States of America forever! No country in the
world was willing to take him... finally India, his motherland came to his rescue! Acharya Rajneesh died
brokenhearted... his experiment remaining a total failure!
In the field of pure spirituality... sensuality and vow of celibacy are miles apart! None
reached God Almighty via path of sexual indulgence. Indulgence in sex is like putting a hole in a pitcher full of
water! By draining sexual energy... the most potent of all cosmic energies... one simply cannot think of reaching
God in present life time! Sex truly has no place in field of pure spirituality!
Other than Jesus Christ and Prophet Mohammed... none other gained enlightenment in their lifetime in West.
Comparatively not hundreds... but thousands gained enlightenment in India in the entire history of mankind! In West
most human beings practiced free sex... something that was taboo on spiritual path. The two are not related... no
Human beings who thought awakening of kundalini was possible through sex remained under an
illusion! Such things are not to be. In the domain of God Almighty there is no place for its and buts! Everything
in cosmic system is based on absolutes. If we truly desire full awakening of Kundalini Shakti... practice of
absolute celibacy was necessitated!
All man gods like Mahavira, Gautama Buddha, Jesus Christ and Prophet Mohammed took vow of
celibacy in the early stages of life... prime reason why all these man gods gained enlightenment in their lifetime!
On path of pure spirituality understanding true meaning of celibacy was an absolute must! The physical aspect of
celibacy constituted hardly 10% of total job.
90% celibacy is always practiced mentally! Eradicating flow of negative thoughts to our brain
in totality is what pure celibacy is all about! The moment one reached stage of absolute purity when only positive
thoughts get invoked by our brain... stopping flow of thoughts to our brain in totality became a reality! One
finally reached stage of Nirvikalpa samadhi (stage of absolute nothingness) when not a single thought entered our
One immediately reached stage of enlightenment (kaivalya jnana) and finally salvation (moksha)!
For travelling spiritual path one need not remain a bachelor throughout life! However, for a
married person pitfalls were many! Only one who exhibited willpower that of Swami Vivekananda finally succeeded in
spiritual journey of life! Swami Vivekananda remained a bachelor throughout life. He was practitioner of celibacy
mantra right from young age!
Even a spiritual stalwart like Swami Vivekananda did not gain enlightenment in his lifetime!
Why? Swami Vivekananda was never after gaining enlightenment in his lifetime! When Sri Ramakrishna Paramhansa asked
Swami Vivekananda why he had come to him, if his goal of life was not gaining self realization... Swami Vivekananda
point-blank replied, just to confirm presence of God!
Swami Vivekananda was absolutely clear about his assertions in life! His goal of life was
absolute. He wanted to serve community to its best... and in that he excelled!
Whatever our goal of life as a married person... we have to follow set pattern of rules laid down in Bhagavad Gita
of Hinduism! Practising sexuality is not a taboo for a married person as per Bhagavad Gita but for a traveler of
spiritual path... it definitely has limitations! Understanding true definition of celibacy is the foremost
requirement of spiritual path.
How could one transmute sexual energy towards the ultimate goal of life... if the precepts of
celibacy... the true meaning of celibacy were not clear to one! Sexual energy can only be transmuted by one... One
who understood definition of spirituality, celibacy, yoga meditation, God Almighty, karma and kundalini awakening
I started in search of God 11 years of age. By 13 my resolve to find God in this very life
became absolute! 25 years of yoga meditation... I finally reached God in wee hours of third of August 1993, at 37
years of age! In my spiritual pursuit... when I got married, when I established a family... was all in the routine!
Nothing in my life ever became a handicap!
My goal of life was firm... see and meet God in this very life! This is my last manifestation
on mother earth. Having reached 8.4 millionth manifestation... nowhere else to go further... the moment I leave my
mortal frame I shall attain salvation (moksha)! The entire wisdom contained in cosmos is now at my tips. I truly
have reached the stage when I can say... wow!
Needless to say that at times my family definitely suffered from materialistic point of view but all is well that
ends well! With God Almighty helping me at every stage of life, I have no regrets in life! My family
responsibilities having completed in totality... I am serving world community through medium of Internet trying to
give back to community what I gained on spiritual path!
May God bless all!
Always there to clarify your queries (send your query),
Vijay Kumar "Atma Jnani" ... The Man who Realized God in 1993!
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... Vijay Kumar - 6 Mar 2011.
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