My friend has reached self realization... But now she does not trust
You say... your friend has reached
self realization! That means your friend has become a Gautama Buddha... or Jesus Christ in present life!
Without even knowing what self realization is all about... you talk of god realization! World is full of such
ignorants who know nothing about spirituality or religion but claim to know hidden truths of life!
In the entire history of mankind only two ladies till date reached stage of self
realization... the famous philosopher Gargi and Maitreyi... second wife of saint Jnanavalakya... the composer and
compiler of most voluminous Upanishad... Brihadarankya Upanishad! Because of their almost impossible feat... these
two ladies deserve applause!
The Gargi and Maitreyi colleges in New Delhi are
reminiscent of good old days when even ladies gained enlightenment (kaivalya jnana) in
Your friend is an ordinary person... whatever her claims! She may not even understand basic
definition of religion or spirituality... what to say of God Almighty! Your keeping friendship with such an
unreliable girl puts a question mark on what you're up to! In the material world... mutual trust develops not
because one is spiritual or not... but on the basis of moral and ethical values!
Your friend... who claims to be realized is neither displaying moral or ethical values! Why
run after such friends who can never be trusted in long run. Always learn to judge a person based on ethical and
moral values... never otherwise! Behind every trust lay foundations of strong moral and ethical principles of
If Arjuna trusted Lord Krishna... it was solely based on moral and ethical principles of life followed and
exhibited by Lord Krishna! No matter what, Lord Krishna stood for truth and absolute truth! All relationships kept
apart... Lord Krishna always sided with one who was on the side of truth!
If Bhishma Pitamah and Guru Dronacharya sided with Kaurava king Duryodhana, Lord Krishna
treated them as enemies... never friends or relatives! Weigh your relationship with your best friend... if you find
you can truly trust her in the long run... remain friends otherwise call quits!
One who may not be of help in the long run is not to be trusted... how can such a one remain
a best friend for long?
More Self Realization related links...
Essays - Self Realization - Stage of Self Realization - Realize Self Realize
God - Path of
May God bless all!
Always there to clarify your queries (send your query),
Vijay Kumar "Atma Jnani" ... The Man who Realized God in 1993!
A to Z of Self Realization explained in words everyone can easily understand and
fathom. More on god realization can be found at : Self Realization
... Vijay Kumar - 7 July 2010.
Full text of query: I have been visiting your site for a long time now but never realized you had a newsletter. I find that
very nice. :) I subscribed to it today.
My friend, well, she changed a lot... doesn't exactly keep her promises and totally
misunderstands me all the time. And she has reached self realization. But if you're one of God's persons, would you
break someone's trust so much?
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