Query: I always think about sex... just want to know is it sin? sometimes i think being
a human being it is natural we all have desires ..but sometimes i think it is sin ..i am not able to control
it, what should i do?|
You have reduced yourself to the level of an animal... engaging in
slavish animal indulgence all the time. Indulgence in uncontrolled sex is literally reducing self to the
level of animals. It was never meant to be like that by God Almighty. Human beings... the highest manifest
stage in the cosmic life cycle are the last in the series of all
It is only in the human form... the soul atman within regains its
original pure pristine form... never otherwise! Every soul atman manifests the human form to work out its
karma... remove the dross impurities within! Similar as the metal within an ore cannot separate itself on its
own... the soul atman also requires a body to work out its karma!
Having born a human being... to indulge in things materialistic is
totally uncalled for! At this stage of life... as a human being we are supposed to preserve all our energies
so that we gain enlightenment (kaivalya jnana) and finally salvation (moksha) at the earliest! We may or may
not travel the spiritual path yet preserving the vital cosmic energy is a necessity! Why?
When we move around successful people in life... it is not difficult to
distinguish that their source of energy lies in preserving the monthly quota of energy provided to every
human being month by month, year by year! This monthly quota of energy given by God Almighty to every man and
woman paves way for scaling higher platforms in life!
Success is never achieved in a day... every success results from precise
planning and lot of perspiration! If we do not have a goal life... life does not mean anything! Your whiling
time... indulging in uncalled for sexual affairs is meaningless! Life without goal is like a rudderless boat
going round and round in the ocean.
One needs to introspect and realize the gravity of the situation! We need
to come out of cocoon of our own making! Life simply must not be whiled away... it should be lived
meaningfully! Animals simply pass their life... they have nothing else to do! The special power of
discrimination every human being has been endowed with by God Almighty that separates us from animals is the
gist of life.
Using this power of discrimination human beings accomplish mammoth
tasks... almost unachievable feats by human standards! Climbing Mount Everest... crossing oceans... reaching
the moon are not simple feats in the life of human beings! Above all... we were never meant to indulge in
indiscriminate sexual relationships whatever the cause!
In present times not only boys but girls indulging in indiscriminate sex
is totally uncalled for! It is not only a sin... it is a forbidden sin in the house of God! When opportune
time comes... every girl is supposed to marry and settle down in life with one partner only. Being
promiscuous never helps. For a moments pleasure... we loose everything in life!
At this stage of life my only advice is... form a definite god in life!
Go after that goal with the bulldog determination of Winston Churchill with all eggs in one basket! You shall
not only accomplish whatever you desire in life... you shall also make a mark in the world... my dear girl!
Do not run after the cravings... they shall slowdown after you have a goal in life!
Apart from your boyfriends you must be having your parents, brothers and
sisters and the society! Your indiscriminate sexual indulgence would hurt all! I am sure you do not desire
that! At this stage of life whatever be your goal... it should be firm! We simply cannot go on changing our
goal of life!
Think over what you seriously desire out of life! Something that you
desire from the corner of your heart! Something indulging in which makes you feel happy all the time! We must
always have goal of life indulging in which we lose track of time! When young sometimes I got so involved in
my search of God that in the evening I used to ask my mother for breakfast!
I started in search of God at 11 years of age. It was a simple desire to
see and meet God in this life. I searched for a spiritual master... a Guru... there was none! Whichever
religious centre I searched all over India... I could never find one whom I could call a true spiritual
master... one who could imbibe in me the true spiritual meaning of life!
I continued my journey of life without a spiritual master to guide me.
Frustrated one-day I requested God Almighty to become my guide else I would dump myself in the canal passing
nearby my house! And lo, God Almighty willingly agreed! From that very day I started hearing distinctly the
sweet small inner voice of my soul atman that seems to come from within the heart.
This voice of our soul atman that comes from within the heart always
guides us on the right path! Whenever I tended to go wrong... I was prompted from within to correct the path!
The only essential requirement to distinctly hear the sweet small inner voice of our soul atman is traveling
the path of absolute truthfulness. Unless we are truthful in life... the voice of our soul atman can never be
Life in the cosmic domain is not governed by whims and fancies! Neither
do desires carry any meaning! At 11 years of age I had a desire to see and meet God. By 13 my desire turned
into firm conviction... come whatever may in this very life I shall meet and see God even if I have to leave
my family... my parents, brothers and sisters!
I continued in the journey of life wholeheartedly and truthfully! At 37
years of age... I finally realized God! I reached the end point of cosmic life... the 8.4 millionth
manifestation... the stage of enlightenment kaivalya jnana and finally salvation moksha! Having reached the
Mount Everest of spiritual pursuit... I have nowhere else to go!
At the end of my present journey, I shall go to the kingdom of God... the
abode of God (aka Vaikuntha in Hinduism). Devoid of all impurities within... I have become a pure soul! One
thing I would like to distinctly mention here... even days before my gaining self realization... I did not
know at what stage of spiritual life I was!
I did not know what Kundalini awakening meant! Neither had I had any
inkling of self realization or enlightenment! Only when I reached the stage of Nirvikalpa Samadhi... did I
realize what had happened to me! Absolutely unknown to me... my Kundalini had fully awakened! The Shahastra
Pushpa (thousand petalled lotus) within my brain on the back of the forehead had fully opened.
I could now invoke the complete Wisdom contained in the Cosmos! I have
never read the sacred Bhagavad Gita, Jaina doctrines, Buddhist scriptures, the Bible and the Quran... yet, I
felt as if I had written all of them in one of my earlier manifestations! The complete gist of life is like
ABCD to me... destroy all the copies of Bhagavad Gita from mother earth... I shall again produce the sacred
Bhagavad Gita without ever reading one! How and why?
My dear girl... life is not limited to the ephemeral world alone... the
physical manifest stage of life! There is something beyond the ephemeral world... the world of spirituality
(not religion). It is our soul atman that is on its cosmic journey of 8.4 million manifestations (an earthly
abode of 96.4 million years).
One reaches the human stage after crossing 7.3 million manifestations in
the insect, plant and animal form! In the human form alone we have 1.1 million manifestations (an earthly
journey of 12.4 million years) to reach the stage of enlightenment and salvation! Who knows what we shall be
in the next manifestation... why not travel the spiritual path now!
By practicing absolute celibacy... one can definitely get out of the rut
of life! My article on celibacy would clear all your doubts. Traveling the path of celibacy voluntarily is not
a sin... a compulsion! Celibacy helps us preserve the monthly quota of energy so vital for our spiritual
development. It increases our power of concentration almost infinitely.
May God bless all!
Always there to clarify your queries (send your query),
Vijay Kumar "Atma Jnani" ... The Man who Realized God in 1993!
A to Z of Indiscriminate Sexual Indulgence explained in words everyone can easily understand and
fathom. More on controlling sexual cravings can be found at : Kundalini Awakening
... Vijay Kumar - 13 June 2010.
Full text of query: I m unmarried girl... sir my probs is that
these days i dont wat happened to me i like to see blue movies ....i always think about sex ....i just want
to know is it sin ? sometimes i think being a human being its natural as we all hav desires ..but sometimes i
think its sin ..i m not able to control it , wat should i do ?
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