I practice meditation almost regularly on path to realize Kundalini. I am married and have a family and to
practice celibacy for 12 years is almost quite impossible? Should I give up this goal of awakening
Before we move further... one thing should be born in mind that full
awakening of the Kundalini means reaching the stage of Sri Ramakrishna Paramhansa or Maharishi Ramana... the
two enlightened souls who fully awakened their Kundalini and reached the stage of Nirvikalpa Samadhi when one
can have a dialogue with God Almighty on one-to-one basis and that too
Full awakening of the Kundalini also means reaching the stage of
enlightenment (kaivalya jnana) and finally gaining salvation (moksha) in the present manifestation. Life
ceases to exist for the person who's Kundalini has fully awakened in present life. One shall not be able to
recognize thy brethren... young and old what to talk of recognizing our own children and
Having reached the stage of Nirvikalpa Samadhi means becoming one with
God Almighty! The distinction between our children and all the children of the world gets eliminated. We
would fail to recognize our parents who gave us birth for after awakening of the Kundalini Mother Earth
becomes our Mother and God Almighty our Father.
Full awakening of the Kundalini means reaching the stage of Mahavira,
Gautama Buddha, Jesus Christ or Prophet Mohammed! The variance in the stature of all these man gods including
Sri Ramakrishna Paramhansa and Maharishi Ramana is that for reaching from New Delhi to Bombay by train we
have different modes available.
We can either take the passenger train... the express... the super fast
or the Rajdhani express. All trains leading to the same goal. Whether we pursue the path advocated by
Mahavira, Gautama Buddha, Jesus Christ, Prophet Mohammed, Sri Ramakrishna Paramhansa or Maharishi Ramana...
the point is reaching the end of the journey... the final goal of life!
Awakening of the Kundalini simply means negating the impurities within
our soul atman within. As the soul atman gains more purity on the spiritual platform... we tend to gain more
and more mental and Tantric powers. If your goal of life is leading family life, do not enter the arena of
However, while living in family life if you want to reach the stage of
enlightenment and salvation... you can definitely tread on this noble and illustrious path of Kundalini
awakening! Here I would like to clear one point and that is... as one tends to gain Kundalini powers... we
experience a phenomenal increase in our mental prowess.
I distinctly remember in second year of engineering when I used to go
through a book... it was as if I had written the same! The workings of the physical manifest world become
secondary. The advantages of entering the spiritual domain are many... to plunge or not to plunge is the
domain and birthright of every individual!
I have a family and two daughters yet I gained self realization in this
life. I do not know how many times I contemplated suicide on the spiritual path... how many forlorn days and
months I passed in life! People still consider me a perfect mental case... yet; I know what I am and what I
have achieved in this life!
I strongly advocate people to refrain from excessive sexual indulgence.
The vital cosmic energy that becomes available to one on practicing celibacy every month needs to be
preserved so that one rises high on the spiritual platform gradually and not all of a sudden. We simply need
to reduce the frequency of sexual indulgences... total abstinence not fully necessary!
We must also learn the true meaning of meditation. Simply practicing
meditation as a ritual never helps. Meditation in Hindi means yoga... the effort of the soul atman within to
join God Almighty... the Parmatman... the Creator of the Cosmos... the one and only God of all creation that
manifests before us on the life supporting planet mother earth.
And how can that be done is explained now... following the path of Neti
through the Shavasana method... one finally reaches the abode of our soul atman... our soul atman itself that
resides in our heart! The moment that happens... our soul atman having purified and liberated forever from
the cycle of birth and death regains its original pure pristine form!
Thereafter it is a direct journey to the abode of God... the kingdom of
God (aka Vaikuntha Hinduism). The purpose of all types of meditation and yoga is realizing our true inner
self... our soul atman within! The moment one reaches the 8.4 millionth manifestation... the last leg in the
cosmic life cycle... one finally gains enlightenment and salvation!
A to Z of Awakening Kundalini explained in words everyone can easily understand and
fathom. More on practice celibacy for 12 years can be found at : Kundalini Awakening... Vijay Kumar - 5 June 2010.
Full text of query: I read your web page on Kundalini. I practice
meditation almost regularly and I was on a path to realize Kundalini. As I was reading your page, I realized
that I am nowhere close to my goals. This is quite discouraging for me. I am married and have a family and to
practice celibacy for 12 years is almost quite impossible for me.
Should I give up this goal of awakening Kundalini? Will regular meditation not help in attaining this